Jindagi ki talash...: Mumbai tujhe Salaam!!!

Jindagi ki talash...: Mumbai tujhe Salaam!!!

A GUIDE FOR LIVING IN 2011

A GUIDE FOR LIVING IN 2011

Health:

1.     Drink plenty of water.
2.     Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3.     Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants..
4.     Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy.
5.     Make time to pray.
6.     Play more games
7.     Read more books than you did in 2010 .
8.     Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9.     Sleep at least 7 hours.
10.   Take a 10-30 minute walk daily.  And while you walk, smile

Personality:

11.   Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12.   Don't have negative thoughts on things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13.   Don't over do.  Keep your limits.
14.   Don't take yourself so seriously.  No one else does.
15.   Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16.   Dream more while you are awake.
17.   Envy is a waste of time.  You already have all you need.
18.   Forget issues of the past.  Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes in the past, that will ruin your present happiness.
19.   Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.  Don't hate others.
20.   Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21.   No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22.   Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.  Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23.   Smile and laugh more.
24.   You don't have to win every argument.  Agree to disagree...


Society:

25.   Call your family often.
26.   Each day give something good to others.
27.   Forgive everyone for everything.
28.   Spend time with people over the age of 70, and under the age of 6.
29.   Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30.   What other people think of you is none of your business.
31.   Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.  Your friends will.  Stay in touch.


Life:

32.   Do the right thing!
33.   Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful, or joyful.
34.   GOD heals everything.
35.   However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36.   No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up.
37.   The best is yet to come...
38.   When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39.   Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.


Last but not the least:
40.   Consider forwarding this guide to those you care about.     http://milanpandey4u.blogspot.com/2011/01/guide-for-living-in-2011.html

Jindagi ki talash: MOM, DAD I LOVE YOU!!!

Jindagi ki talash: MOM, DAD I LOVE YOU!!!: "Tomorrow is 26th January, a very important day in our country’s history. We Indians will celebrate our 62nd Republic Day tomorrow. So indee..."

RAINBOWS

Expect a rainbow,

and you'll find it eventually.

Your dreams will come true

as long as you believe they will.

Expect a rainbow--

believe in the impossible,

otherwise you may miss

opportunity when it

knocks on your door.

Expect a rainbow,

and escape to dreams.

If you can touch your dreams

with your eyes shut,

then you can stay focused

on your goal with your eyes open.

THE FIVE KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP

1. HONESTY--- We have to be completely honest in all off our affairs not only with our love ones, but with ourselves. Always we need to check our motives in any thing we do that could affect our love one and their well being. We need to be on guard for self-centerness, self-seeking as opposed to self-caring and self worth. Nothing will destroy our love ones trust and erode the foundation of love quicker than a person who lies or cheats, being able to be truthful even when we know that the truth will hurt sometimes is what matters, that our love one will be truthful and trusted is the tie that binds us.

2. ADD TO IT--- We need to go into any new relationship with the ideal that i can add to that other person's life to give all of myself to them with no reserve, not be self-seeking and selfish in our needs and wants, the real definition of love is the caring and nurturing of another's well being and spiritual growth, not what you can get out of it, but what can you give to it ! Too many times people are like some streets named... One way only…

3. NO EXPECTATIONS--- Here again we have to learn to accept our mates as they are, not who we want them to be. We like them for their good qualities, but love them for their defects is true love. Change in a person is a inside job and only god has that power to grant the change, we must be able to take the good with the bad and vice versa, nobody is perfect let them be who they are and don't expect them to be anyone else, or we will always live with disappointment for a companion.

4. DON'T KEEP SCORE--- Avoid this at all cost, forgive and forget. Get over and get rid of any resentments or they will destroy a relationship. Arguments over money or children and using retaliation to punish or get back for any injury's to our feelings or pride and ego will upset the apple cart. This spiritual illness will snowball all the way to the end of the divorce, and then after it all ends then you see there was no winner only two lonely losers now are left.

5. TRUST IN GOD... The most beautiful relationships survive and grow because god was invited into them. If god can get you to it, god can get you through it, the shortest distance between a problem and a solution, is the same distance between your knees and the floor. When we bow before god we can stand before any man or woman. Trust in the lord and he will bless your love and keep you whole. Talk to each other and share this commitment to honor our father and use his Devine guidance

THE ABC's OF FRIENDSHIP

Always be honest
Be there when they need you
Cheer them on
Don't look for their faults
Every chance you get, call
Forgive them
Get together often
Have faith in them
Include them
Just listen
Know their dreams
Love them unconditionally
Make them feel special
Never forget them
Offer to help
Praise them honestly
Quietly disagree
Rescue them often
Say you're sorry
Talk frequently
Use good judgment
Vote for them
Wish them well
X-ray yourself first
Your word counts
Zip your mouth when told a secret